The basic thing that we need to figure out is that our life is comprised of experiences, situations, and the decisions we make. I personally believe that the people you meet and the places you go will shape your view of the world. For example, if you meet someone inspirational you will probably try to emulate them in some fashion. Whether you plan to or not, subconsciously you are drawn to be more like people who are successful, or accomplished in their lives, so naturally you try to be like them. Second, If you visit a 3rd world country or the 106th floor on the Willis Tower, you will be left with an impression that you will not forget any time soon, this also will have bearing on your life.
What you need to realize is that although we plan for certain things, there are other circumstances that may come up in your life that you were not ready for. The best thing to do is smile at those situations, take them in stride and persevere. There is a treasure lying in the unexpected, you may learn a lesson, or realize that you are capable of alot more than you thought. We always tend to undercut our abilities and have somewhat negative views about ourselves. We our are worst critics. So to grow through these situations, I suggest to never give up an opportunity to go out on a limb, I am NOT saying do whatever you want without thinking of the consequences. What I am suggesting is to analyze the decisions you are making or not making and take a few more risks, enjoy your ride through life. Why waste it now and sit back saying, Well when I'm retired I'll do this, or go here, or learn this because I'll have more time. The best thing you can do is start it now.
"Someday is a disease that will take your dreams to the grave with you".
The other day my friends and I were supposed to go kayaking. They ended up not being able to go, so I went anyway on a three and a half hour run. I said to myself ," Why should I miss out on an opportunity just because no one else will go with me." I went ended up having a wonderful time, taking in views of wildlife, and four hundred foot cliffs around every corner. Plus I learned a lesson, I lost my paddle while maneuvering around a more difficult rapids that had lots of fallen trees obstructing passage, so I went around and my paddle ended up in the rapids never to be seen of again. Instead of quitting or freaking out, I looked for about twenty minutes for it, then wrote it off, found a four foot tree branch that was about 4 inches thick and L shaped and used that as my paddle for the remainder of the trip, about forty five minutes. I taught myself how to properly handle adversity alone, plus keep my wits and make tough decisions in critical situations. When I got picked up at the end of my run, I had a smile from ear to ear, plus I had a cool story to tell. Instead of my friends who spent the day 'relaxing'. I lived.
Many of lives things happen only for a moment, the view of a sunset, making love, a hike in the woods, a wedding, a dance, a ballgame, even natural disasters. Enjoy the present, make the right decisions, try not to pass up experiences that can improve your life.
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